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~ The greatest lack in this world is compassion and care ~

~ The greatest lack in this world is compassion and care ~
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Monday, 25 July 2011

Domestic Violence

Just in USA, every 15 seconds a woman experiences domestic violence. One in four women suffer with domestic violence. Men who do this are MENTALLY SICK and need to get help to heal.

To beat any woman up is inexcusable. When violence towards a woman is carried out in front of children, the children learn this behavior. They either copy the abuser or become recipients of what to expect as adults! Children learn from their parents.

Domestic violence is a global concern. Women are being mentally, emotionally, physically and sexually abused by their partners. Rape is not excusable in or outside a marriage - this is a violating and degrading act with deliberate intention. Rape is sexual abuse!

Not all men are abusers! Men are not born to abuse women. To abuse a woman goes totally against the nature of many men.

However not all men address their anger. Irresponsibile attitudes and actions are excused too often. The negative spiral of self-destruction might be learned behavior. Not everyone is in control of their own process. Self-esteem issues often apply too.

Women have been blamed too often for the short coming of males.

I would like to encourage all women to speak out and not be silent, if you are violated - find your inner voice. Do not stay silent especially if you feel intimidated by your partner. Find someone outside your relationship you can trust and speak to.

The mindgames that take place is to manipulate, abuse and control. There are people who think it is OK and even harmless to play psychological games. Think on! Playing such games in any relationship will plant seeds that grow later on.

Many women stay in violent relationships because they fear being hunted down and killed. Many women hope the problem will go away. There are women who will make excuses for their patners violent behavior - and those who leave but return home after saying 'sorry' - yet saying 'sorry' once is once too often.

Staying in a destructive relationship might cost you your life. Two people who are damaged can become a liability to theirselves.

When children observe love and respect, they know this to be the norm. When children witness abuse, disrespect and violence, they know this to be the norm too. A very serious and escalating issue that goes on in so many peoples homes.

Many men do not realise they are copying their parents behavior. Not everyone takes responsibility for their own process. When we are all faced to look at our selves and our behavior we have the opportunity to address our healing need.

When anyone ignores domestic violence - this is giving permission for it to continue and escalate, even to impact future generations. Do not turn a blind eye to what is really going on.

The following video is graphic and more serious because the abuser is asking young children to film it with other children watching. The psychological imprint of these children's minds are recorded for the rest of their life.

Healing need must be addressed head on. The reason I raise this issue is 'Do not Blame'. Be responsibile. Get help if you need help.♥



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